Tool · Interactive
Relationship check-in.
Ten honest questions. Rate each from 1 (rarely true) to 5 (very true). Nothing is saved or sent — this runs entirely on your device.
1 = rarely true · 3 = sometimes · 5 = very true
1. We can disagree without it turning into a fight.
2. I feel heard when I raise something that matters to me.
3. We still have warmth and affection day to day.
4. When we rupture, we repair reasonably quickly.
5. I can be honest with my partner without bracing for it.
6. We're more like partners than roommates right now.
7. I trust my partner — with my feelings and in general.
8. We make time for each other, not just logistics.
9. I feel like we're on the same team.
10. I'm hopeful about where we're headed together.
A note on this tool. It helps you organize your own thoughts and builds a prompt you can use with a general AI assistant like ChatGPT or Claude. It is not therapy, not personalized advice from Koby, and not a substitute for professional help. Nothing you type here is sent to Koby. If you're in crisis, call or text 9-8-8 or call 9-1-1.